One thing I've noticed while I've been cruising the
Ultimate Blog Party is that a lot of you are homeschooling moms. So I'd like to have a little bit of a chat about homeschooling, and also about the concept of "unschooling." Maybe it's because I had the traditional school education myself, although I went to a parochial school and not a public one, but I can't wrap my mind around the concept of school without some kinds of "paper work," at least in the younger grades. Even with oral drills, how can math be taught without doing exercises on paper, for example?
Perhaps it is merely a difference between children. I learned a great deal from my voracious reading as a child. I learned to read at a very young age, and my reading was quite varied. My father told the story of how he found me at age 5 reading
Reader's Digest, and upon asking me what I was reading, I informed him that I was reading about a soldier in Vietnam behind enemy lines. When I see a movie I like, I promptly go read the book, if I haven't read it already. (Yes Kate, I've actually read
The Princess Bride!)
However, my two children are different. The Scientist was also an early reader, and is still a voracious one. However, she doesn't seem able to pick up as much when she reads. I am still laboring to teach her proper grammar and punctuation, for example, and this, at least for me, requires worksheets and practice to make the point. She struggles over writing assignments, and while they are fine when she does complete them, the grammar and punctuation is still an issue after a few years of writing. Thus the need I feel to bolster her writing with language workbooks.
Also, she doesn't seem to have much "curiosity." She loves to read but doesn't have a desire to find out more about what she's read, or to explore much on her own. If I didn't direct her schooling, she'd probably stick to
Saddle Club books and playing with her hamster. How do you know she will develop an interest for more later, and isn't it important to build the foundation while she's still young?
Wildchild is requiring even more work, as she dislikes reading, period. She is capable of doing it; she just dislikes it, by her own admittance. I am having to coax her with phonics exercises and viewings of
Between the Lions to get her to read at all. I know she
can, and so I am doing everything possible to make it easier for her. I've heard many moms say that kids learn at their own pace, but if reading is the basis for so much of learning, she'd best learn to do it well for herself (she's eight and doing mostly "second grade" level work.) And Wildchild has even less of a spirit of inquiry than her sister.

I don't feel guilt for my schooling choices, but I've noticed that "unschooling" moms are mainly ones that seem to wax rhapsodic about their schooling choices, so maybe I'm wondering if I'm missing out on something. :) Also, I'd like to know what kinds of books you choose. Or do the kids choose?? Grab a drinkie and chat with me!